Trying something new!

So since the second of my best friends will be married in less than 6 months.... I am almost a lone man standing! LOL... it's true! So Those of us who are still single, within our group have started a new adventure, however I think it has ultimately turned out worse than we thought.. I started with a new saying, when we're going out... we are out to "be seen" and then my other friend that is embarking on this with me has made a "rule" that we have to try and talk to one person while we're out. BUT here lies the problem... So in the last three weeks we have tried new and different places and what we have found were entertaining to say the least! Finally we thought we had found a place that would be great, we even scoped it out and saw the people who were going in, they looked attractive and dressed nice, so we found something cute to wear and went the nest weekend.... I think disaster follows me. This was terrible, the music was good though. There was so much nonsense going on in  this place I can't even begin. There were  a lot people, but no one who caught my eye. So although I don't want to say I think we've been defeated, but it seems as everywhere we go turns ridiculous. So once again I am at square one and looking for more places. There has to be something nice in a huge city like this.... hopefully I will find it!